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Thursday, 28 April 2011 05:14

Okay hi. I was too lazy to blog today but i MUST tell the world about this amazing book i read today introduced by Ivy. It's called Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov! It's super amazing, words can't express how amazing it is. The common perception of being nice to guys will make them love you and appreciate you is totally wrong. I feel so enlightened. LOL!

  • You should be a bitch for a guy to love you. (Assert your authority! Don't let a guy make decisions for you)
  • Act as dumb as fuck (E.g if they talk about their ex-girlfriends, just change topic and pretend to hear nothing)
  • Stop nagging (If you do, they will realized that they have a hold over you. If you stop nagging and pretend to be ok, they will worry. Ie "why the hell isn't she nagging? She is supposed to!"
  • Stop asking them to be sweet (They will get bored if they realized that you're so needy)
  • Have a life (Dont let go of your social life just for them)
I don't know if anyone knows this but i didn't. Okay, maybe i did but i truly thought being like this will make a guy think you're a bitch and leave you for it until i read this book. The author make guys sound like puppies! Can't barely put the book down because it's so interesting and so true. It's like a instruction manual to a guy's mind. I think one part is very true though. Don't act as if he is your world and don't allow him to step on your head. Make it clear that "this is who i am, take it or leave it and i'm better then anyone else'. When you believe yourself to be that amazing, you'll have the confidence to act that way and guys will respect you for it. :) Okay damn cool i'm back to my books.

Ah crap, can't upload multiple pictures on blogger. Tomorrow then! tata ~